A true friend is one that encourages you to grow in your walk with Christ, even when it may be awkward or hard to accept.
And an enemy isn’t necessarily always forthright in their intentions. They’re destruction can be camouflaged to look like support.
Prayerfully decide who you will take advice from, who you will accept as a friend.
Proverbs 27:6 Faithful are the wounds of a friend; but the kisses of the enemy are deceitful.