Why do you think the bible teaches that it is better for a man to go to the wilderness rather than to stay in the house with a contentious and angry woman?
I’m thinking that maybe it’s to save the purity of the relationship.
Because when tempers flare and there is someone there to argue with more often than not someone is going to speak too harshly…either in words said or tones used.
So next time you’re about to lose it I encourage you to take a breather. The time spent regrouping is well worth the damage control that you’ll be able to avoid later.